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How To Turn On a Guy Instantly (So He Can’t Get Enough Of You)

Different guys are turned on by different things. Others like being totally submissive in bed while others like being dominant. Others prefer a mixture of the two. In reality, there are literally hundreds of different fetishes and kinks your man might get turned on by. He might love seeing you all dressed up in skimpy clothing or even dressed up as his favorite cartoon character. He might even like it when you lick his toes!

There are many different kinky ideas and fetishes that generally turn all men on. Below are some of them that are proven to work. And they work almost instantly.

A Dirty Mouth

There are many different ways you can talk dirty to a man depending on what you’ll be most comfortable with. This will build sexual tension and have the man salivating for you. You can also use some vague statements that will leave him thinking about you.

In bed, whisper in his ears dirty things and his mind will explode in ecstasy. You can tell him to do things to you and call him names. There is nothing more exciting that will turn him on than talking dirty while making out. You can get explicit and say the nastiest, kinky and trashiest words you can think of. Alternatively, you can take the opposite route and be completely polite. You can tell him the following:

“When I come, I’m going to give you something you’ve only dreamed of.”

“No matter how hard you try, I bet you can’t guess the color of the bra I’m wearing.”

Still, it’s not about memorizing lines, but more about the feelings you create in his mind with the tone of your voice that should be feminine, submissive, and a bit kinky – as if you’re doing something naughty and saying some usually forbidden things.

A good kisser

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Men are turned on by women who kiss with passion and intensity. This technique takes initiative; you have to kiss your man first before he gets to kiss you. Drag your fingertips lightly over his arms. This will tickle him and make him feel great. You will drive him totally crazy when you get a little bit aggressive by doing the following:

  • Squeeze one of his lips between yours
  • Bite one of his lips gently between your teeth
  • Move his head with one hand to one side as you change where you kiss him.
  • Alternate between kissing him on his lips, sucking his ear lobe and kissing his neck
  • You can also kiss his chest and the rest of his body

Fetishes and kinks

If you want to turn a man on in a way that no other woman in the world can, find out his fetishes and kinks. However, guys always consider such matter quite private and personal. They are usually shy and nervous about telling them to anyone. Therefore, if you catch him off-guard and ask him directly what his kinks are and what turns him on, he might try to dodge the question.

Avoid asking him directly. Instead, be indirect. Wait until you’re both in bed and right before sex. Start by telling him about your kinks and turn ons. You can tell him that you would like a man going down on you or being aggressive in bed. It’s now time to hear his. Instead of being direct, you can use a clever approach like asking him:

“I bet you like it when I’m in controlling everything”

This may solicit a response that will make him open up to you. Don’t worry if he doesn’t. You can say other statements similar to:

“I know you’d get turned on by doing it in the car.”

He will be compelled to tell you all his kinks and fetishes!

Taking control

Men find it really hot when you initiate things and take a little bit of control. Therefore, if the man is the one who always starts things in the bedroom, without mentioning it to him, change the course and be the one who initiates things.

An occasional romp where you’re the mistress will work wonders in turning him on. He will get so turned on when you spank him, push him down and command him to do whatever you want. Daddy likes it when he’s in control but he sure loves it when his girl commands him now and then.

Oral Heaven

Guys absolutely adore oral sex. A vast majority of guys even prefer blowjobs to regular sex; it turns them on intensely. If you seriously want to turn him on, you should probably learn some killer blowjob techniques.

Tell Him What You Like

You massage your man’s ego subtly when you tell him what you like him doing in bed. It lets him know what positions and techniques get you off most times. It makes him fantasize about how he’s going to make love to you. Try to use as much details as possible when you describe in detail the things that turn you on.

Good looks

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Since guys are visual in nature, they get turned on by what they see. So, looking good should be a high priority. Consider it a “pre” foreplay tip even before you begin touching. Guys experience a buildup of sexual tension when they see a woman dressed up in something hot and sexy. This will turn on a man hours before you get physically intimate.

Flirting

Men like it when you flirt with them. It creates sexual tension and makes them yearn for more. Take his hands and put them round your waist. Men are quite turned on when you initiate role playing games in public. They like it when you flirt outrageously and talk to them as if you’re complete strangers. They like it when you show them that the love is wild and still young. It’s about being playful in a sexy way.

Skin

Every guy likes seeing some skin. It might be shallow, but absolutely true. Guys like it when women wear rather revealing clothing. It’s desirous, sexy and quite a huge turn on for guys. Especially if your skin is glowing and soft so it’s a turn on to touch and lick.

So there you have it: say a few dirty words, kiss him where he least expects (lick his earlobe playfully), figure out his fetish and don’t be surprised if it’s something “degrading” that he’d love to do to you, jump him from time to time instead of just waiting around for him to always make the first move, master the art of killer oral, reveal your own dark desires, show your best features and “curve yourself up” with the right clothes and regular twerkouts, take care of your skin and keep flirting with him even if you’ve been together for years (this always makes him feel hot). That’s how you can always turn your guy on and make it seem ever-fresh.

Your friend,

Tanya J.

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