Some women think that all they need to do when giving a blow job is “suck, suck, and suck away” – they forget that there’s so much more to a blow job than just bobbing in ‘n’ out hoping he’ll orgasm. Maybe he does cum from that, but this doesn’t mean that this was the most intense orgasm he could have gotten!
One thing you’ve got, other than your sexy lips, are your magic-producing hands. When used correctly, your hands can produce miracles… sometimes even a stronger orgasm than he would get just from pleasuring him with your mouth. And a great blowjob technique is impossible without using your hands.
What I want you to learn is to combine blow job tricks with hand job techniques and produce a powerful orgasm. On the other hand, there are women that are only looking for hand job tips, thinking that they can get away with not using their mouths. That’s another weak strategy.
This is What You Need to Know:
The best is when you are able to get a guy to reach an orgasm:
– by only using your mouth
– by only using your hands
Once you’re able to make him orgasm in these two different ways individually – imagine what you could do when you combine the two!
Since I already thoroughly covered blowjobs in the Book, here I’ll give you a couple of hand job tips as an extra. Use these 6 hand job secrets and you’ll be able to make him cum with just your hands! Then read the Book and combine the two so that you can give him insane pleasure!
The 1st secret to good hand jobs is lubrication.
Lube, lube, and more lube. It’s close to impossible to give a good hand job without lubrication, because without lube, your hands can’t slide freely all over his penis. There are many kinds of lube, try a couple and see which one you both like most. My favorite is plain massage oil because it isn’t sticky.
The 2nd secret of good hand jobs is “the zone.”
What is The Zone? What I call “the zone” is something only a few women know how to “enter.” Some girls just grab the guy’s shaft and whack off pointlessly hoping for an orgasm that never seems to come. You need to get into an emotional zone where you are bonding with your guy on a deeper, emotional level. The zone is a place where logic doesn’t exist, where you tune into your senses and the only thing that exists are feelings and emotions.
Being in the zone means that you feel what he feels – you connect with him on a deeper level, and suddenly you know exactly what he enjoys most. This may sound like crazy mumbo-jumbo esoteric nonsense, but once you get into the zone, you know it works. The way to get there is to let go of logic, close your eyes, and jerk him off with feelings.
The 3rd secret of good hand jobs is playfulness.
Take your time the next time you give a hand job. Don’t rush it. He doesn’t have to orgasm. Make it playful and fun for both of you. Use both hands to twist his shaft, up and down. Make circles around the head with your fingers. Don’t be afraid to have a tighter grip around his shaft. Handle that cock with confidence! That’s the secret ingredient of powerful orgasms!
The 4th secret of good hand jobs is observance.
Observe the way he reacts to your moves. Become more receptive of his reactions and adjust your technique. For example, you might observe that he gets really excited when you kiss his balls while giving him a hand job, or that he loves it when you massage him just under his balls. Try things out and when you see him enjoying something, continue doing it.
The 5th secret of a good hand job is to know how to end it.
Everything you’ve done before was to build up his orgasm. Now you need to make him orgasm. Some dirty talk will help his mind command his penis that it’s time to get the soldiers out. Double the action, triple the excitement. Breathe heavily and make it appear as if you are having an orgasm yourself. Let it dribble all over your hands and over him… giggle, slow down… look at him seductively and tell him you love him.
And Finally: Your Weapon of Mass Explosion – A Few Awesome Hand Job Techniques!
Gently massage his balls with one hand, mix it ’round the head of his cock with your other hand – use your palm. Then use your sexy nails on his shaft to make his cock harder – dont’ be afraid to be a bit freaky and playfully scratch his shaft with your nails. Stroke his cock from top to bottom, bottom to top, swiftly twist your hand as you change your grip. Then use just the tips of your fingers to tickle the head of his cock. Massage his prostate, under his balls. If he’s more open about it, pass by his anus gently with your finger. He’ll love it. Grab his shaft and then press your thumb on his frenulum, then keep jerking him off all the while vibrating your thumb and making small, quick movements left-right and in circles on his frenulum. This will drive him nuts! With a combination of one hand massaging his balls, prostate and anus, and the other hand stroking his oiled up cock and playing around his frenulum, pump faster and keep stroking harder as he is cumming the life out of his cock.
And that’s how you give a great hand job!
But why stop there? Hand jobs are not bad, by themselves – but it’s like having a Ferrari and never hitting the gas to the end! The real deal is giving mind blowing blowjobs. As I said – you have to combine the two. Once you are able to make a guy cum just by using your hands and then you learn blowjob secrets SO powerful – that you can make him cum just by using your mouth – IMAGINE the magic you can create when you combine these two.
He’ll think you have super-powers! And I bet you he’ll get that wedding ring ready!
To learn more about sucking cock like a pro, go and read my blowjob bible: Jack’s Blowjob Lessons. There you can also learn more about top-notch handjobs.
See you on the other side,
Your blow job instructor,
Jack