What is it about some women who seem to attract all the guys? Is it only looks? Nope. Is it only personality? Not exactly either. Is it an attitude? Well, now, you’re getting warmer.
You see, attraction is an inner game that anyone can learn. It comes from an inner knowing – an inner confidence, and from understanding who you are. It comes from the place of valuing yourself, and knowing that you are worthy.
Women love a confident man. But men secretly want a confident woman. I remember one time when I was out on a date with a tall, slender, attractive girl, but she was nervous and very insecure. We had taken her more economical car on a trip and she opened the passenger car door for me (from the inside because she was freakin tall). I remember at the time thinking that was nice, but a bit odd. She did everything she could to make me happy.
Nowadays if that happened to me, I would have given her a second chance because I understand now that she just needed to become a more confident person. But back then, in my late 20s, it turned me off. Totally off.
She was the nicest girl, but her niceness was coming from a place of lack of self-worth. I lost attraction for her and we only had that one date. In retrospect, I should have been more receptive to her. But I couldn’t stop feeling a lack of attraction.
I’m not saying to be a jerk to guys. What I am saying is that you have to love and value yourself first in order to attract what you want.
Here are a few more tips to help you to get men to really want you:
Play Hard to Get.
It is a very ironic thing in life – the more you want something, the harder it can become to get it. But if what you want comes with an attitude of, “Wouldn’t it be nice” or “Ah, I can take it or leave it,” then it comes a lot easier and quicker.
Men believe that the more attractive a woman is, the harder it is to get her – she will play harder to get. But what women don’t know is that even an average or a not so average woman who plays hard to get will get more men to want them. Why? Because we then think that there is some mysterious secret as to why you value yourself so much, and we want to get to the bottom of it – or into your pants to find out.
So, play a bit hard to get. Don’t throw yourself at us. Make us work some for it.
Dress And Be Sexy (Feminine).
This is not much of a surprise – dressing sexy is another obvious way to get men to want you. You would be surprised at how it feels to a guy to be around a woman who is dressed sexy, and then she moves in such a way as to reveal a bit too much skin. It can send shock waves through our whole body in an instant, and then keep us thinking and dreaming about you for days on end.
But its not just how you are dressed – it is how you move, and how you interact with others. There is nothing quit as attractive as a fun-loving, happy girl who has a great smile, and dresses sexy.
Wear High Heels.
I may sound like a chauvinistic pig when I say this, but high-heels makes almost any woman hot. We love that look of high-heels on a woman. Also, it makes you a lot taller than normal, and makes your legs look longer, too.
This is why strippers wear high-heels. One day, I was out at Starbucks with a new girlfriend of mine. And she said, “I have a ton of high heels back home (Indiana) from the days of when I was a dancer.” I then asked, “You were a dancer?” She quickly changed the subject. Eh-hmmm…
Let Him See (A Bit of) Skin.
I already mentioned this, but seeing a woman’s beautiful skin is like an aphrodisiac to us. You don’t have to show too much – and flashing skin that is normally not seen is hot. I don’t mean that you should go around flashing your boobs at every guy. What I am talking about is simply the art of flashing skin when we least expect it. That’s a total turn on for us.
Be Naughty and Nice At The Same Time.
I remember when my first wife and I were getting to know each other at work. One day, she wore a short skirt to work and then did a Sharon Stone leg crossing right in front of me.
I saw her beautiful tan legs all the way up to her panties. My tongue hit the floor, my jaw dropped a couple feet, and I think my eyes popped out. My co-workers had to put me back together…
I told her about it later and she told me, with a smirk, that I shouldn’t have been looking. That was naughty. And nice. She did it on purpose. She knew what she was doing.
Do that more. Lots more of that please. Every guy on the planet is begging you now…
Don’t Be Afraid To Turn On Your Inner Wild Woman.
You don’t have to look like Taylor Swift to get our attention. You don’t have to be a total knockout. Personality goes a long, long way with guys, but let me tell you what kind of personality works best – a wild woman.
You don’t have to be that way all of the time. Actually, it’s a lot more attractive if you turn it on when we least expect it – it really keeps us guessing as to what you’re going to do next. A wild woman isn’t necessarily a loose women. It’s more of an attitude of freedom and power – the freedom to do as you please because you are a powerful, wild woman. And this actually works. Just check what kind of results women that have applied my course got from men by adopting the right kind of attitude.
The Most Important Tip.
Guess what I think is the most important tip? No, not that kind of tip… I’m not that dirty minded. Okay, maybe I am but not right now.
The tip I’m talking about is giving a good BJ. No joke. It’s all up to you, of course, as to when and where you do it, but if you want to seal the deal on attracting your man, give him a great blowjob. It’s a rare skill that most women lack and makes you completely unique if you can do it right. This one thing alone can completely change the way he looks at you – forever. It’s the ultimate thing every guy wants, but most guys never get, or are too shy to tell you or they don’t want to offend you. It shows your appreciation of him and boosts his ego, plus it makes him feel amazing. Try for yourself and see how he’ll react. Don’t believe me, see what women that have applied my program have to say.
Jack