Different guys are turned on by different things. Others like being totally submissive in bed while others like being dominant. Others prefer a mixture of the two. In reality, there are literally hundreds of different fetishes and kinks your man might get turned on by. He might love seeing you all dressed up in skimpy clothing or even dressed up as his favorite cartoon character. He might even like it when you lick his toes!
There are many different kinky ideas and fetishes that generally turn all men on. Below are some of them that are proven to work. And they work almost instantly.
Let’s face it – guys are more likely to cheat if they are not getting what they want from their girlfriends. It’s simply human nature – we all want to have a great sex life with our partner.
Most men, and women for that matter, fantasize about other partners. But for either sex, if they have a great sex life with their partner, then they are much less likely to cheat.
You can’t really force anyone to want you or to like you, or love you – but you sure can do quite a bit to influence him.
In order to get a guy to want you, first, become the type of person who you would want to hang out with. Learn to enjoy your own company and treat yourself really well. When he sees that you genuinely like and love yourself, he will want you more.
There are a number of assumptions with this topic – for example, it is assumed that when you broke up, you were still friends. It is also assumed that he still has some contact with you to some degree – maybe you’re still friends on Facebook or whatever social media you use.
It’s rather pointless and difficult to try to make your ex-boyfriend want you back if you got into a huge fight, and he stormed out the door, swearing to never see you again, all the while calling you ever bad name he would think of.
How do you get to put your man in the mood? Be it one time in a day, two times or even five. Sex is usually mental, before proceeding to the physical aspect.
Let’s get real here. If there’s a guy you really like and you want to make him fall for you, here’s what you need to know.
First, realize that he may not like you. At all. You may not be his type. There may be no “chemistry” going on. This doesn’t mean that you can not ignite that chemistry — most of the time, you can. But first, see if there is any chemistry. When you look at him… and hold your gaze for a second longer. Do you see him looking away, or even looking back at you, in a way. Does he “zone out” and go into his mind for a second, thinking about his feelings for you (if there are any). Or is he just completely indifferent.
If there is some sort of initial chemistry going on… then you have a chance of making him fall in love. If there’s absolutely no chemistry, then you’re probably just waisting your time with this guy.
Now, this doesn’t mean that you can’t get him interested in you, but that’s another article then. Men are ATTRACTED by your looks first, that’s what “hooks” them if you’ve got the type of body, face, voice, curves that he likes. So you must “hook” him before you can “cook” him. And this is where most women mess up with a guy they like. They try to cook a guy that isn’t hooked first. This just pushes him away.
Now, if looks (the front) attract, what keeps a guy (and makes him fall in love) are things that come later — your energy, your personality, and your behavior. These are things that go beyond simple “lust” and go into “Love.” When he feels like you’re “The One” for him. The thing with this phase is that it’s all about how he feels when he is with you and around you. It’s all about this feeling that you create and whether you can make him enjoy this time and want more of it (and more of you). It’s about not becoming boring, too. But it doesn’t have to be a constant “job” for you — keeping him interested. It should be an automated process where you do things in a certain way that he really, really likes, at that point, managing your his love for you becomes an effortless journey.
Again, I want to assume that this guy is already ATTRACTED to you to some degree. He’s already hooked. He already LIKES something about you. It doesn’t matter what it is. And it may just be sex (for now) or that he didn’t find anyone else (better). Whatever it is… if you want to “seal the deal” with this guy and turn him into your full-time, committed, 100% loyal and loving boyfriend that’ll soon put a ring on your finger… then follow my advice. Why? Because it works! And because it’s the TRUTH ABOUT MEN, what they like, and how they fall for a woman.
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Why And Where Looks Count And How To Use This To Your Advantage
Look like her and you can get away with anything
Whoever tells you it’s not all about looks is a big, big liar. I mean, it’s not ALL about looks, but, for guys, it’s like 65%. I’d say 70%, but that’d be too much. 65% is just right. You see… you can be relatively dumb (which is a plus for most guys, they don’t want to get into arguments with a woman that’s too smart… it’s easier for them to love you when you’re not too clever — no joke — so don’t be a know it all and, seriously, the smart thing to do is to act like a dumb lamb. Guys love to be the one to save you, and it’s hard to save a “smart girl.”)
… anyway, where was I. Yes, so, you can be relatively dumb, and you can also be hysterical, crazy, insane — all the stuff men like to call women, you can even be EVIL. But… IF you are HOT, if you have a bootylicious, round booty, if it’s firm and you can Twerk it out on the Twerkout Olympics… if your skin is silky smooth, soft, pampered, if you’ve got a nice hourglass figure and you walk with sexy confidence… then you can GET AWAY WITH ANYTHING. It doesn’t matter. Men are just hypnotized by good looks. I mean, you don’t have to be a model. But you have to be in the top 10% of women. If other women are chubby, they eat burgers and don’t take care of their looks, that’s their problem. You’ve got to be in the top 10-20% in the looks department. Because men ARE shallow. You know they swipe you away on Tinder just based upon a few pictures. They DO NOT care about your personality until they actually meet you.
Because here’s the truth: you can have a fantastic personality and all that and you can be “average looking” — but then this EVIL, PSYCHO-CHICK with a super-hot body comes along and he LEAVES YOU for her, even tough she’ll DESTROY HIS LIFE. And he won’t be happy with her, but he’ll get over his misery and turn the other cheek. All because she’s hot. Again, it’s not ALL about looks, but it’s a good 65%. So you better hit the gym and STOP EATING JUNK. 80/20 weight loss style. Just eliminate the 20% of the junk food that’s responsible for 80% of the extra weight that you don’t want. It’s not rocketscience.
I mean, look at all those HOT women that are dumb, evil etc. and they’re living “the life” with some dashing dude. All because they are hot. It PAYS to invest in your looks often more than a college degree. Seriously. I’m not saying you should go MAD on the makeup and stuff, but do take care of yourself. When you’re hot, you’ll be more self-confident and you’ll FEEL sexier. You’ll beam a better energy and this gets men addicted to you.
Now, good looks don’t just attract, they help you KEEP a guy too. You can get away with more. But here’s what makes him fall in love — it’s when you STAY HOT. That’s the key here. Most women, once they get into a relationship (men too), forget about STAYING HOT. They think “ok, now i’ve got him, now I can get fat” and they do. The only way you can go is forward in terms of your looks. It doesn’t matter that you age. It’s just about healthy habits, regular exercises and you know, being hot for him. This will only make him value you more. And want to jump you all the time. That’s the #1 foolproof way to make him fall in love — look hot, not good — HOT.
2. Men are simpler than you can imagine!
A guy has two basic functions. Eat (in order to survive) and have sex (in order to reproduce). That’s it. If you look at things from that perspective, that’s all men really want, or need, to be more precise. If you can help him out with those two things — he’ll get emotionally, physically and sexually addicted to you. Yep. It’s that simple.
Now, this will sound super-chauvinistic, but hear me out. If you’re serious about this guy, hear me out. Back in the 50s, 60s, 70s… the divorce rate was much lower. Life was also slower. Back then — women were more feminine, and they were more focused on creating a happy home that a man wants to come back to, every day. She did that by pleasing him, and women were (statistics prove this) happier. 10 times happier. Not because they were submissive to men, but because they had STABLE RELATIONSHIPS, they had stable love, more of a partnership where everyone had their clear role. And how did she make him fall in love? Well — she cooked wonderful meals for him.
Few women do that today. The only time a guy can eat some relatively good food is if he eats out and SPENDS serious cash. Even then, the food can often be crap. And home, he only eats crap too.
But a woman that cooks him a delicious meal (every now and then) and makes him eat like a King? She’s a keeper! I mean come on. That’s a rarity nowadays. And believe me — men LOVE to eat. Good, quality food. Home cooked. A big, serious meal. It’s not just about the food, but about the message — you care about him. You’re helping him get the energy to actually have lustful sex with you. You know why millions of men have weak erections nowadays? Because they eat terrible food. They don’t have the energy to have quality sex several times per day (another thing that makes him fall in love with you). So think about that for a second. Give it a try. If you cook him just ONE OR TWO good meals per week — he’ll view you as a GODDESS. He’ll BRAG about you and your culinary skills all the time. And you don’t even have to be a MasterChef — just learn 10 recipes and master those. That’s all. Then just keep mixing these 10 things up a bit and that’s it. You’ll be considered a total pro. And FORGET about having to make everything the healthiest on the planet, sure, it should be healthy, but give this dude some SERIOUS STAKE. MEAT. Men are savages and they want big, fat stakes.
And breakfast. Come on. When he wakes up at your place or his place — make him some delicious stuff. Eggs, bacon, whatever. Start the day together. You can even clean up a bit. Why? Because any guy IS looking for his mother, to some extent. That’s the truth there. He needs an ASSistant (with a sexy booty) to TAKE CARE OF HIM so that he can go out there — hunt (for money) — and come back with enough loot to buy you DIAMONDS, girl. So yeah, it’s a freaking partnership. But if you don’t want to be a part of it because of feminism etc. then you’ll end up SAD and ALONE.
So those are the first two things: look hot and cook great. These two “secrets” alone will instantly put you LIGHTYEARS ahead of your competition. Because most women grow up in a fairy tale where they expect the guy to do everything perfectly and they think they don’t need to provide anything in exchange. Men interested in HOT women is the equivalent of you being attracted to a guy with MONEY — it’s normal. That money says something about him — his industrious, he works, he’s doing something, going somewhere, he’s not a BUM.
Anyway — get cookin’! And see how he falls in love with you in no time!
3. Take him to Heaven (on Earth)!
How do you think she became so popular?
And last, but definitely not least… my third secret to getting him to fall MADLY in love with you. You won’t believe this, but, again, it’s quite simple — blowjobs. Yep. That’s it. Virtually all men love getting them and most women are terrible at giving them. Terrible, really. This means that once you master my killer techniques, you’ll be Unique. One of a kind. A Diamond.
The reason this matters to men is not just the incredible physical pleasure — that he then emotionally connects with you, which makes him addicted to you. It’s a PSYCHOLOGICAL thing. You see, when you go down and dirty on him (on your own initiative), he feels that you submit to him, that you worship him, and you are his woman. This makes him feel powerful and manly. And that’s a basic “alpha” type feeling that every man needs to feel in order to stay CONFIDENT in his “hunting” abilities. A guy can’t think straight when he’s got a “full load” inside him and he needs a stress relief. And your mouth can do magic if you know how to do it right (and most women don’t, which is great because you can have an unfair advantage over them). It’s purely hypnotic to a man… and when you look up at him and look deep into his eyes — he feels a connection unlike anything else humanly possible. This is what makes him fall and stay in love with you — forever. I know you may not believe me, and you don’t have to… I mean, just read what some of my clients have experienced in their love life thanks to learn how to give killer oral. It really works. And the cool thing about this is that you DON’T have to be a beauty queen to make him feel like he’s in heaven! This is the ONE skill that cuts through looks and creates an incredible connection between the two of you. No hot looks necessary.
But don’t believe me. Try these 3 things and see for yourself. Give this 1 month. Start looking HOT, cook and blow like a pro — and you’ll see how he puts a DIAMOND, mega-ring on your finger in no time! Hate me all you want, but this is what 99% of men want. Everything else is secondary. Try these 3 things for a month, and see how your love life transforms, see how you can get any guy you want to fall head over heels in love with you.
I think that one of the biggest mistakes that women make is that they typically don’t give their guys enough space. This is especially true when there’s an ongoing problem in the relationship. To us, the man cave is the perfect answer. It welcomes us with open arms, despite the horrid old pizza boxes mixed with dirty socks smell.
I am not a psychologist, but I do know a thing or two about relationships from experience.
The first thing you need to think about is this – is the marriage worth saving? Of course, if he’s abusing you or your kids if you have them, you should seriously consider getting out. But if not, then keep on reading.
What is it about some women who seem to attract all the guys? Is it only looks? Nope. Is it only personality? Not exactly either. Is it an attitude? Well, now, you’re getting warmer.
You see, attraction is an inner game that anyone can learn. It comes from an inner knowing – an inner confidence, and from understanding who you are. It comes from the place of valuing yourself, and knowing that you are worthy.
Men crave a lot of different things. Not just physical, but emotional as well. In today’s world, men are bombed with the physical, women too. Women are convinced that the only thing men want in a woman are good looks (and that’s enough), so many women completely forget about other aspects of a relationship. Many good-looking women are convinced that that’s enough and that they don’t need to contribute anything else to a relationship. This makes them seem arrogant. Then they wonder why their relationships keep failing one after the other. Sure, good looks definitely help in attracting a man’s attention, but they fade at some point and they don’t help keeping that same attention. What matters a lot more to a guy is how you make him feel — especially about himself. Continue reading “The 1 Thing He Is Probably Not Getting From You”
