You probably do.
Even if your guy says you are “amazing,” – he may just be nice because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
Never stop growing and improving your skills. There’s always room for improvement.
Your guy will be happy if he sees that you are coming up with new and creative ways to please him. Even if your BJ techniques and skills are already great, over time and repetition, they might become “the same as last time.” Don’t let your blowjobs become boring. Keep if new and fresh.
Satisfying his deepest desires is an endless game, because his desires expand and change over time. Keep selling what he’s buying, and you’ll never have to worry about a potential break up.
Every guy will appreciate that you are putting some effort into not just maintaining your relationship, but improving it.
Now, you might wonder – “Do I REALLY need to improve my skills, or am I already “okay” at giving head?”
Maybe your guy isn’t as expressive as you’d like him to be, or you aren’t sure whether he’s really enjoying your blowjobs, Leave nothing to chance and guesswork. Find evidence that reveals the truth.
I suggest you Test Yourself and see whether you are terrible and need blowjob consulting immediately, or whether you are already pretty good at it and new ideas could further improve your skills in ways you didn’t know are possible.
Answer these 10 questions truthfully and you’ll know whether you urgently need to read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons or not.
1. I can make him orgasm in less than 7 minutes with a blow job.
TRUE or FALSE?
Now, how long should a blowjob last anyway? Sometimes it’s better when it’s quicker, other times men enjoy a one-hour blowjob. It’s important that you have stamina and know how to pace a blowjob so you don’t get tired and he enjoys every second of it. In general, if it takes you too long to get your guy to orgasm, and you are not prolonging it deliberately, then there’s something wrong with your skills.
Ultimately, you should be at a level where you control when he orgasms and how powerful that orgasm will be. This is something you do by pushing all his “secret buttons” that trigger an almost instant orgasm. When your blowjob skills are top-notch, you can make a guy orgasm whether he wants it or not.
2. My guy is really excited and moaning loud whenever I give him head.
TRUE or FALSE?
If your guy is as expressive as a dead fish when you blow him, your performance probably sucks. And not in a good way. Of course, some men are less vocal, but just look at his face – if he can keep a 100% straight, emotionless face and not make a single sound while you suck his cock, then he’s either a STATUE, drunk, or your skills are crap. Unfortunately, it’s usually the latter.
When you give a top notch blowjob, your guy will have a hard time not complimenting you (non-stop), moaning load, saying “oh my god” , and swearing like a sailor – especially when he gets near to orgasm. At least look at his face, his eyes should be popping out of his head!
Everything below a reaction like that means there is a room for improvement.
3. I can deepthroat e.g. swallow his whole shaft with little or no effort whatsoever.
TRUE or FALSE?
Knowing how to deepthroat means you truly care. Being willing to learn to swallow his whole shaft is true devotion. Good girl. You are marriage-material for sure.
Deep-throating is rare, and most women don’t even try to do it, they simply give up once their gag reflex kicks in. Your eyes start watering, you feel embarrassed, so you stop. That’s a loser’s mindset! Any woman can and should learn to deepthroat, you just need the right knowledge and the willingness to try.
4. I swallow and take facials.
TRUE or FALSE?
Well, well… if you do swallow and take facials, email me – I’d love to meet you ;)
And if you don’t. You should. Here’s why.
5. I love giving blowjobs, sometimes even more than having sex.
TRUE or FALSE?
Attitude is everything when it comes to blowjobs. If you have it, any technique you use becomes 10 times more effective. On the other hand, if your attitude sucks (and most women have a horrible blowjob attitude! – or “blowtitude” as I like to call it)… no matter how good your techniques, the blowjob will never live up to its potential.
6. I’m totally comfortable talking dirty to him while being on my knees.
TRUE or FALSE?
A lot of women lack the confidence to talk dirty during sex and blowjobs. They’re afraid it will sound dumb, or slutty. And sometimes it does sound super-dumb and saying the wrong stuff and the wrong time will sound both FAKE and be a turn off!
There’s no reason to feel lost when it comes to dirty talk. And, by the way, saying the right words can produce MAGICAL results – because a man’s orgasm happens first between his ears, not his legs.
7. I am 100% confident about my blow jobs. I approach his penis fearlessly!
TRUE or FALSE?
Confidence is key with blowjobs, just like with anything else. But you can’t be confident if you don’t know what you are doing! Knowledge truly is power. When you know exactly what a man wants in a blowjob, when you know what feels good and what doesn’t, then everything you do – you do with total confidence.
You grab his cock the way it should be and you are relaxed, comfortable, playful – you enjoy the whole thing! That’s the basis of a great blowjob. You create the vibe and the energy, and with the right approach – anything is possible.
8. He is in a state of SHOCK when he orgasms. I think he might get a heart attack!
TRUE or FALSE?
Yep. That’s what’s possible. There are two types of orgasms. One is just the simple one, he kind of orgasms, the orgasm lasts 5-6 seconds, his sperm kind of dribbles out slowly… and that’s it. The other orgasm is what “mind-blowing” truly stands for. He is shaking, his legs are moving around like crazy, he’s hitting the table with his fist. His eyes are popping out. His mouth is open and moaning. He’s looking at you as if you’ve made a deal with the devil! He stops breathing for a second. He’s in SHOCK.
Then he starts to orgasm, and orgasm, and orgasm. His cock rock hard, exploding all over your body, face, mouth, and he just keeps cumming, and cumming, and cumming – and it seems like it doesn’t end! It just shoots out and keeps shooting like a machine gun. Finally it slows down and he’s wondering whether he just died and went to Blowjob Heaven! He forgets his own name… and needs at least half an hour to recover.
9. He often tells me that I give “the best blow jobs in the world” or at least way better than all of his ex’s combined.
TRUE or FALSE?
Make sure his compliments are genuine. If he’s obsessed with your mouth and gets turned on whenever you eat ice cream or put a banana in your mouth, then you know it’s true and that your blowjobs really make him go nuts. Just look at his face after he orgasms… does he look at you in the “I’m in love with you” way or the “that was nice, at least I didn’t have to jerk off… ” way.
10. I always get him off with a BJ.
TRUE or FALSE?
Sometimes he simply can’t orgasm from just a blowjob no matter how hard you try. It’s crucial that you understand the processes happening in a man’s mind and know how to solve any problem that comes along the way. He’s not a robot, and it’s normal that he can’t cum every single time, but still, if this happens more often than you’d like it to, you definitely need to improve your skills.
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In case you’ve answered at least 7-8 questions with TRUE your blowjob skills are pretty good already, you could still benefit from reading Jack’s Blowjob Lessons – the best blowjob guide on Earth, because you’ll acquire new knowledge (and knowledge is power!) and ideas you didn’t think of before.
The truth may hurt, but it will set you free.
Now, in case you didn’t answer “true” to at least 7-8 of the questions above, then you know you really need to work on your skills. Why not invest in a skill like that?
It’s time to step your game up. Men are comparing creatures. Every new woman in our life we compare to ex girlfriends. The reason you are still together is because you are (probably) better in bed than his ex girlfriends.
Make sure you’re good enough so that if a potential “competitor” comes along she’s no match to your superior Blowjob skills. Men think with their penises, conquer it. That’s the surest way to his heart. Learn more about Jack’s Blowjob Lessons by clicking here.
See you on the other side.
Your blow job instructor,
Jack