Head. Blowjobs. Hummers. Fellatio. Going Down. Whatever you call it, men will do almost anything to get it. Oral sex is as intimate and hot as it sounds, so be empowered! He’s at your mercy. You will have his full trust. You control each and every moment of his pleasure. A great BJ is the ultimate gift you can give your guy sexually. Why not give it your all?
You must find the right balance to excite your partner during the act. You should not be hesitant, but delicate, varying the pace and leading the game.
The essence of a good fellatio is the practice and fun that comes with it for the woman. You probably will not believe me if I tell you that some women reach, themselves, orgasms by sucking their men, and yet it is the absolute truth!
Picture this… Your man is lying comfortably on his back, he is naked and his penis is erect. Sit on the bed and start licking his chest, slowly, slowly … take your time.
Then continue to lick gradually down on his stomach, slowly and carefully. Approach his penis with your mouth, without touching it, so that he just feels your breath on his penis. Then tickle it with the tip of your tongue, which should always be kept moist, without touching it with your hands for now. Your man, unless he’s an alien, will go crazy, I guarantee it!
You now want to give your man the perfect blowjob. How will you achieve that?
Here are my thoughts, in words… proven blowjob techniques that work like magic:
How To Enjoy it.
Enjoy the blowjob, love its smell, texture and see the beauty of the exercise. The Blowjob must always be a pleasurable moment, not only for him, but also you. If you do not appreciate the exercise, try to find some reasons that will make you like it, otherwise it is better to abandon the whole thing.
For blowjobs, the psychological aspect is fundamental. The exercise should give you a significant feeling of power, as if you’re holding something fragile and precious. Practicing good oral sex can be considered an art, but if you really do not like it, then do not risk it. That’s also the main thing you’ll discover in Jack’s Blowjob program.
How To Look into his eyes.
Not all the time though … but often look up at your lover, with that naughty twinkle in your eyes: just before tickling his dick with the tip of your tongue, just before grabbing his balls with both hands, just before pushing his cock deeper into your mouth.
If an orgasm approaches, gaze into your man’s eyes! The looks exchanged during the perfect blowjob are intense, vibrant and full of emotion.
Use a lot of saliva.
The dick should slide perfectly, between the lips, the hands, and also between the breasts… A perfect blowjob is hot and humid. The lips must ensure that his dick is moist before letting it down the mouth. Lick the palms of your hands before grabbing the dick and caress it slowly!
Your teeth: the worst enemy of fellatio.
Take care not to touch his penis with your teeth, they will ruin everything – the teeth are “enemies” of fellatio remember – and often the reason why people do not like blowjobs. This is not necessarily the case. Sadomasochistic relationships aside, it is not unpleasant to be nibbling the glans gently (very gently!). I would advise beginners not to embark on any biting. For advanced blowjob techniques, refer to Jack’s advanced bj lessons.
Talk to him.
The words to say during the blowjob include: “I like it when I suck your dick” or “You taste so good” or “Your cock is so beautiful, so hard, so big”… all these words will greatly excite your man.
Talking while the dick is in the mouth is wildly exciting, because the lips and tongue move differently, providing unexpected sensations.
The functional scope.
Play with his balls, taking them both into your mouth, but slowly, without compressing them, like trying to float them in your mouth, Yum!
It is also nice to rub your breasts on the thighs of your lover, wiggling your buttocks, exposing them to sight, taking a break by inserting the dick between your breasts and sliding it slowly up and down, with some lubrication of course.
How deep should your blowjob go.
The perfect blow job requires a deep throat, otherwise it will be a great blow job, a memorable fellatio… but it will not be perfect. Deep fellatio requires the will and practice, that’s all! I’ve written a detailed, step by step guide about it in Jack’s program.
Let him decide when he will cum.
Obviously, the perfect blowjob must come to an end. It culminates with the orgasm of the lover: he cums where he wishes, at this moment, the body of your man is tense, he breathes rapidly and has only one desire, to let go … You can ask: “You want to cum in my mouth?” Add a sexy wink.
How to manage ejaculation (like a pro).
Back on topic: You’re leaning on him, you’re going back and forth with your mouth, accelerate the pace without stopping rotations with your tongue, and increase the pressure of your hands.
At this stage, they should be flooded with saliva. Some men like to put a hand on the head of their partner, to set the pace. Let go of yourself because the man knows better what he likes. If you’re doing a “good job”, he should be about to ejaculate.
Then you have several options. Some women prefer to turn their face upwards facing the man while stroking the dick until he ejaculates in their hands, others love men ejaculating in their mouth and letting the sperms pass on their lips.
Some women prefer to swallow the sperms. Its flavor is salty and a little bitter, but no one has ever died. A final possibility, a bit naughty, is to masturbate the man on your face and receive him all over your gorgeous face.
What to do after he ejaculates.
Warning: if you keep his penis in your mouth while he ejaculates, slow down, and reduce the pressure because the glans becomes very sensitive during orgasm, the continued back-and-forth movement can cause pain.
When all is finished, rest his dick momentarily between your lips, then finally gently pull it out of your mouth and rest it on his belly, accompanying it with your hand.
Then you can kiss him, but be careful if the semen you have swallowed has been left in, on, or around your mouth because you should know that most of the men do not like that.
And that’s how you give a perfect blowjob.
Your friend,
Tanya