{"id":398,"date":"2016-03-21T13:26:47","date_gmt":"2016-03-21T13:26:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/?p=398"},"modified":"2016-03-28T15:38:25","modified_gmt":"2016-03-28T15:38:25","slug":"how-to-turn-on-a-guy-instantly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/how-to-turn-on-a-guy-instantly\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Turn On a Guy Instantly (So He Can&#8217;t Get Enough Of You)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Different guys are turned on by different things. Others like being totally submissive in bed while others like being dominant. Others prefer a mixture of the two. In reality, there are literally hundreds of different fetishes and kinks your man might get turned on by. He might love seeing you all dressed up in skimpy clothing or even dressed up as his favorite cartoon character. He might even like it when you lick his toes! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">There are many different kinky ideas and fetishes that generally turn all men on. Below are some of them that are proven to work. And they work almost instantly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\">A Dirty Mouth<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">There are many different ways you can talk dirty to a man depending on what you\u2019ll be most comfortable with. This will build sexual tension and have the man salivating for you. You can also use some vague statements that will leave him thinking about you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">In bed, whisper in his ears dirty things and his mind will explode in ecstasy. You can tell him to do things to you and call him names. There is nothing more exciting that will turn him on than talking dirty while making out.<\/span> <span class=\"s1\">You can get explicit and say the nastiest, kinky and trashiest words you can think of. Alternatively, you can take the opposite route and be completely polite. You can tell him the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">&#8220;When I come, I&#8217;m going to give you something you&#8217;ve only dreamed of.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">&#8220;No matter how hard you try, I bet you can\u2019t guess the color of the bra I\u2019m wearing.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Still, it&#8217;s not about memorizing lines, but more about the feelings you create in his mind with the tone of your voice that should be feminine, submissive, and a bit kinky &#8211; as if you&#8217;re doing something naughty and saying some usually forbidden things.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">A good kisser<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-421\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/kissing-couple.jpg\" alt=\"kissing couple\" width=\"1000\" height=\"627\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/kissing-couple.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/kissing-couple-300x188.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/kissing-couple-768x482.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Men are turned on by women who kiss with passion and intensity. This technique takes initiative; you have to kiss your man first before he gets to kiss you. Drag your fingertips lightly over his arms. This will tickle him and make him feel great. You will drive him totally crazy when you get a little bit aggressive by doing the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Squeeze one of his lips between yours<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Bite one of his lips gently between your teeth<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Move his head with one hand to one side as you change where you kiss him.<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">Alternate between kissing him on his lips, sucking his ear lobe and kissing his neck<\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"li1\"><span class=\"s1\">You can also kiss his chest and the rest of his body<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Fetishes and kinks<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If you want to turn a man on in a way that no other woman in the world can, find out his fetishes and kinks. However, guys always consider such matter quite private and personal. They are usually shy and nervous about telling them to anyone. Therefore, if you catch him off-guard and ask him directly what his kinks are and what turns him on, he might try to dodge the question. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Avoid asking him directly. Instead, be indirect. Wait until you\u2019re both in bed and right before sex. Start by telling him about your kinks and turn ons. You can tell him that you would like a man going down on you or being aggressive in bed. It\u2019s now time to hear his. Instead of being direct, you can use a clever approach like asking him:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cI bet you like it when I\u2019m in controlling everything\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">This may solicit a response that will make him open up to you. Don\u2019t worry if he doesn\u2019t. You can say other statements similar to:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cI know you\u2019d get turned on by doing it in the car.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">He will be compelled to tell you all his kinks and fetishes!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Taking control<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Men find it really hot when you initiate things and take a little bit of control. Therefore, if the man is the one who always starts things in the bedroom, without mentioning it to him, change the course and be the one who initiates things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">An occasional romp where you\u2019re the mistress will work wonders in turning him on. He will get so turned on when you spank him, push him down and command him to do whatever you want. Daddy likes it when he\u2019s in control but he sure loves it when his girl commands him now and then.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oral Heaven<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Guys absolutely adore oral sex. A vast majority of guys even prefer blowjobs to regular sex; it turns them on intensely. If you seriously want to turn him on, you should probably learn some <a href=\"http:\/\/jacksblowjoblessons.com\" target=\"_blank\">killer blowjob\u00a0techniques<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Tell Him What You Like<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You massage your man\u2019s ego subtly when you tell him what you like him doing in bed. It lets him know what positions and techniques get you off most times. It makes him fantasize about how he\u2019s going to make love to you. Try to use as much details as possible when you describe in detail the things that turn you on.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Good looks<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-423\" src=\"http:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/beautiful-woman.jpg\" alt=\"beautiful woman\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/beautiful-woman.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/beautiful-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/beautiful-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Since guys are visual in nature, they get turned on by what they see. So, looking good should be a high priority. Consider it a \u201cpre\u201d foreplay tip even before you begin touching. Guys experience a buildup of sexual tension when they see a woman dressed up in something hot and sexy. This will turn on a man hours before you get physically intimate.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Flirting<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Men like it when you flirt with them. It creates sexual tension and makes them yearn for more. Take his hands and put them round your waist. Men are quite turned on when you initiate role playing games in public. They like it when you flirt outrageously and talk to them as if you\u2019re complete strangers. They like it when you show them that the love is wild and still young. It&#8217;s about being playful in a sexy way.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Skin<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Every guy likes seeing some skin. It might be shallow, but absolutely true. Guys like it when women wear rather revealing clothing. It\u2019s desirous, sexy and quite a huge turn on for guys. Especially if your skin is glowing and soft so it&#8217;s a turn on to touch and lick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">So there you have it: say a few dirty words, kiss him where he least expects (lick his earlobe playfully), figure out his fetish and don&#8217;t be surprised if it&#8217;s something &#8220;degrading&#8221; that he&#8217;d love to do to you, jump him from time to time instead of just waiting around for him to always make the first move, master <a href=\"http:\/\/jacksblowjoblessons.com\" target=\"_blank\">the art of killer oral<\/a>, reveal your own dark desires, show your best features and &#8220;curve yourself up&#8221; with the right clothes and regular twerkouts, take care of your skin and keep flirting with him even if you&#8217;ve been together for years (this always makes him feel hot). That&#8217;s how you can always turn your guy on and make it seem ever-fresh.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Your friend,<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Tanya J.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Different guys are turned on by different things. Others like being totally submissive in bed while others like being dominant. Others prefer a mixture of the two. In reality, there are literally hundreds of different fetishes and kinks your man might get turned on by. 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