Most women have this \u201cperformance fear\u201d when they are new to blowjobs. Some are even terrified from just the thought of giving them. This fear is eating you alive and making your blowjobs worse by the minute. It\u2019s like a vicious circle. Some women are so afraid of giving head that they simply don\u2019t give head at all. That\u2019s their answer to their fear. You\u2019ll never solve it if you keep escaping it.<\/p>\n
So, what can you do about your fear of blowjobs?<\/p>\n
Look your fear in the eyes and conquer it! I know you can do it.<\/p>\n
Here are 2 types of blowjob fears I\u2019ve seen and how you can overcome them.<\/p>\n
Be careful what you think. It might come true. Stop measuring yourself all the time and comparing yourself to other women he was with before you. He\u2019s with you now, and you need to keep it that way. If he got used to receiving blow jobs on a regular\/daily basis, he expects you to give him head too.<\/p>\n
And any blow job is better than no blow job at all.<\/b>\u00a0Every sane guy will appreciate your effort to improve and practice (\u00a0Do You Need to Improve Your Blowjob Skills?<\/a>\u00a0) \u2013 so use his penis as a guinea pig, practice until you get better. I know that much depends on the guy \u2013 does he make you feel safe, does he make you feel comfortable, loved and appreciated?<\/p>\n All these things matter. Control the aspects that you can (fix the atmosphere, dim the lights, light some candles, put on some relaxing music) in order to get yourself in a relaxed, calm mood.\u00a0It’s not the end of the world if you mess up.<\/i>\u00a0Relax and take it easy.<\/p>\n Accept that you are new to giving head and know that over time and practice, you\u2019ll become great at it. The sooner you start practicing, the sooner you\u2019ll get better at this essential \u201clife skill.\u201d It IS a life skill.\u00a0Give great head and you\u2019ll get ahead<\/i>\u00a0;)<\/p>\n Get out of your head. Stop thinking and start feeling. Tap into your senses and turn off the conscious thinking part of your brain. As long as you don\u2019t chop his penis off with your teeth, you\u2019re safe. You\u2019ll look dumb and weird if you FEEL like that.<\/p>\n Fake it till you make it.<\/b>\u00a0Behave as if you were good at it. Be confident in what you do and believe in every move you make with your tongue and lips. It\u2019s the same thing when it comes to talking dirty. If you believe it, it will sound great. If you think you\u2019ll sound dumb, you probably will. Believe in yourself!<\/p>\n When you know more about what your boyfriend wants in a blow job you\u2019ll know what to do in order to get him to orgasm. Every time.\u00a0So, equip yourself with some\u00a0great blow job techniques<\/a>\u00a0and start practicing the right stuff.<\/p>\n You can give blow jobs every day and over time you\u2019ll probably get better, but if you\u2019re doing the wrong things over and over again, without being receptive of what your boyfriend likes, then you\u2019ll never master the art of blowjobs, you\u2019ll always remain \u201cjust okay.\u201d You should aspire to learn to give mind blowing blow jobs \u2013 not just average one\u2019s. Whatever you are doing, it\u2019s worth doing it right.<\/p>\n No matter what you decide to do, one thing is for sure. You MUST believe in yourself. Love yourself. Have a positive attitude towards yourself and have a positive self-talk. Don\u2019t look down upon yourself in any way. With some determination and belief, you can become great at anything! Even blowjobs! ;)<\/p>\n Till later,<\/p>\n Your blow job instructor,<\/p>\n Jack<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Most women have this \u201cperformance fear\u201d when they are new to blowjobs. Some are even terrified from just the thought of giving them. This fear is eating you alive and making your blowjobs worse by the minute. It\u2019s like a vicious circle. Some women are so afraid of giving head that they simply don\u2019t give … <\/p>\n2. You\u2019re afraid to hurt him or look dumb.<\/h2>\n