{"id":50,"date":"2012-04-06T04:48:49","date_gmt":"2012-04-06T04:48:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/?p=50"},"modified":"2016-01-24T18:07:15","modified_gmt":"2016-01-24T18:07:15","slug":"having-sex-vs-giving-him-a-blow-job","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/having-sex-vs-giving-him-a-blow-job\/","title":{"rendered":"Do Guys Like BJs More Than Sex?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m preaching a system here \u2013 sell what your guy Needs and Wants to buy.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s how you keep a man happy over and over again.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you\u2019ll be in the mood to give him a blow job, other times you\u2019ll be turned on and you\u2019ll just want to have sex. I think that the two shouldn\u2019t exclude each other \u2013 sex and blow jobs go hand in hand. For now, we&#8217;ll focus on\u00a0<em>his<\/em> satisfaction.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>You can develop a feeling for whether he\u2019s in the mood for sex or just blow jobs. Sex is, obviously, more demanding. He might be tired, lazy, or just not full of testosterone. If he\u2019s kissing you passionately, grabbing your ass, smelling your neck and behaving like a Caveman \u2013 he most likely wants to rip your clothes apart and make sweet, sexy and dominating love to you. In other words \u2013 he wants to fuck the living hell out of you.<\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s a bit tired, low in energy and just wants to chill, cuddle, and he&#8217;s slightly more emotional \u2013 then you\u2019ll feel that he isn\u2019t THAT horny at the moment. Throw him on the couch, and give him a slow, relaxing blow job just to show him how much you love and value him. That\u2019s a perfect girlfriend.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What about me?&#8221; &#8211; I hear you asking.<\/p>\n<p>IF you\u2019re not really in the mood for sex, but he\u2019s going nuts and really wants it: &#8220;cool him down&#8221; with a great blowjob. You\u2019ll have to do it more aggressively though because he&#8217;ll want it rougher &#8211; so &#8211; pump harder, faster, and take his cock with more passion and energy than you usually would.<\/p>\n<p>Over time you\u2019ll be able to identify whether it\u2019s time for a relaxing, sensual blowjob or a more aggressive one. <strong>Your Blowjobs need to be tailor-made depending on the situation.<\/strong> I know this may sound too demanding or complicated &#8211; but if you want to be his Dream Girl, then that&#8217;s what it takes.\u00a0<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">you<\/span> are in the mood for sex, but he isn\u2019t e.g. he\u2019d rather just get a BJ &#8211; then you should have sex anyway! Just take a position that <em>is less physically demanding for him<\/em>. For example, you on top, riding him, turn your ass toward him as he\u2019s sitting at the edge of the bed. Get creative.<\/p>\n<p>Being able to \u201cread\u201d his mood is essential for having a good relationship and good communication with your guy. View yourself as a salesman, he\u2019s your customer and \u201cthe customer is always right.&#8221;\u00a0You want to make him a &#8220;loyal&#8221;, &#8220;long term customer&#8221; &#8211; so serve your customer&#8217;s needs to the fullest. You want to over-deliver ;)<\/p>\n<p>So \u2013 if he expects to get a pretty good blow job from you, you\u2019ll surprise him by giving him an excellent blow job instead! That\u2019s also the reason <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\">Jack&#8217;s Blowjob Lessons<\/a><\/em>\u00a0over-delivers.<\/p>\n<p>Focus on becoming more receptive on your guy\u2019s needs and the sky is the limit. After all, every man loves a woman that has a <strong>pleasing personality<\/strong>. That\u2019s why women in Asian cultures (and South America) that are raised with a mentality to \u201cbe good wives\u201d are taking away the best men from the US.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s keep it real.\u00a0How could a guy complain when she sucks the life out of his penis every single morning, cooks for him and treats him like a king? That\u2019s how you keep a guy in love with you forever.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line is: blowjobs are NOT better than sex and vice versa, it all depends on the mood and your energy levels. Be flexible and adapt.<\/p>\n<p>Your blow job instructor,<\/p>\n<p>Jack<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m preaching a system here \u2013 sell what your guy Needs and Wants to buy. That\u2019s how you keep a man happy over and over again. Sometimes you\u2019ll be in the mood to give him a blow job, other times you\u2019ll be turned on and you\u2019ll just want to have sex. I think that the &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/having-sex-vs-giving-him-a-blow-job\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Do Guys Like BJs More Than Sex?&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":213,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11],"tags":[15],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":294,"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50\/revisions\/294"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/213"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jacksblowjoblessons.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}