I’m preaching a system here – sell what your guy Needs and Wants to buy.
That’s how you keep a man happy over and over again.
Sometimes you’ll be in the mood to give him a blow job, other times you’ll be turned on and you’ll just want to have sex. I think that the two shouldn’t exclude each other – sex and blow jobs go hand in hand. For now, we’ll focus on his satisfaction.
You can develop a feeling for whether he’s in the mood for sex or just blow jobs. Sex is, obviously, more demanding. He might be tired, lazy, or just not full of testosterone. If he’s kissing you passionately, grabbing your ass, smelling your neck and behaving like a Caveman – he most likely wants to rip your clothes apart and make sweet, sexy and dominating love to you. In other words – he wants to fuck the living hell out of you.
If he’s a bit tired, low in energy and just wants to chill, cuddle, and he’s slightly more emotional – then you’ll feel that he isn’t THAT horny at the moment. Throw him on the couch, and give him a slow, relaxing blow job just to show him how much you love and value him. That’s a perfect girlfriend.
“What about me?” – I hear you asking.
IF you’re not really in the mood for sex, but he’s going nuts and really wants it: “cool him down” with a great blowjob. You’ll have to do it more aggressively though because he’ll want it rougher – so – pump harder, faster, and take his cock with more passion and energy than you usually would.
Over time you’ll be able to identify whether it’s time for a relaxing, sensual blowjob or a more aggressive one. Your Blowjobs need to be tailor-made depending on the situation. I know this may sound too demanding or complicated – but if you want to be his Dream Girl, then that’s what it takes.
On the other hand, if you are in the mood for sex, but he isn’t e.g. he’d rather just get a BJ – then you should have sex anyway! Just take a position that is less physically demanding for him. For example, you on top, riding him, turn your ass toward him as he’s sitting at the edge of the bed. Get creative.
Being able to “read” his mood is essential for having a good relationship and good communication with your guy. View yourself as a salesman, he’s your customer and “the customer is always right.” You want to make him a “loyal”, “long term customer” – so serve your customer’s needs to the fullest. You want to over-deliver ;)
So – if he expects to get a pretty good blow job from you, you’ll surprise him by giving him an excellent blow job instead! That’s also the reason Jack’s Blowjob Lessons over-delivers.
Focus on becoming more receptive on your guy’s needs and the sky is the limit. After all, every man loves a woman that has a pleasing personality. That’s why women in Asian cultures (and South America) that are raised with a mentality to “be good wives” are taking away the best men from the US.
Let’s keep it real. How could a guy complain when she sucks the life out of his penis every single morning, cooks for him and treats him like a king? That’s how you keep a guy in love with you forever.
The bottom line is: blowjobs are NOT better than sex and vice versa, it all depends on the mood and your energy levels. Be flexible and adapt.
Your blow job instructor,
Jack