Had enough of giving blowjobs without getting anything in return? That sucks. Your guy is a douche. I’ll help you solve that. Here are 7 proven to work tips that will pull him between your legs like gravity! Follow these tips and he should know what time it is.
1. Make yourself more inviting.
A bikini/Brazilian wax works like a charm. I love to eat out my girlfriend, and I know that may not be the case with most guys. Keep in mind that by staying clean and fresh you’ll be more attractive to your guy and more inviting. Smell like vanilla! Use some body lotion to make your skin silky smooth ;) That helps. Actually, here’s an article on tasting and smelling good.
2. Let him know.
Never say, “You’re never going down on me!” – that won’t work. Instead, tell him how much you enjoy it once he finally does go down on you. He needs to know that you enjoy it – even if he’s not that good at it, act as if his skills are fantastic! This will motivate him to do it more often and , by practicing, get better at giving you oral.
3. Instruct him.
Your guy has fears too. He’s down there and he has no idea what he’s doing. He’s lost in translation. He needs direction. When he does something you like – moan louder, tell him to stay there and keep doing more of it. Over time he’ll get better at it. Don’t be shy with telling him what you like. As long as you don’t have a nasty-commanding tone in your voice, he’ll be fine with your suggestions.
4. Orgasm.
In case you don’t manage to relax and orgasm when he eats you out, don’t make him feel like a terrible loser by moving on to sex without a word. At least you have the power to fake an orgasm. Guys can’t do that. Killing his self-esteem won’t help you in the long run. Instead, act as if you came, then have sex and tell him later how much you enjoyed when he was pleasing you orally. Next time he’ll be more confident about it and more willing to do it over and over again. Hopefully next time you have an orgasm – for real. This way you give him time to practice and get better at pleasing you. The more you moan, the more motivated he’ll be. So keep encouraging him.
5. Out the shower.
You also enjoy giving him head more when he just gets out the shower, smelling nice and all that, than when he’s tired and dirty after a long day of work or whatever. Shower together. Or come to his place after you take shower. Put on some body lotion, smell like flowers, vanilla, whatever. Smell incredibly well. This will make him salivate when he sees you and he’ll want to eat you out immediately. The best moment when your guy will eat you out is when he is full of testosterone, for example, after a work out in the gym. Set up a nice atmosphere so that you can both relax and enjoy things. You’ll enjoy it more if you’re alone somewhere so that you can scream and moan without restrictions.
6. Get tight.
When the muscles around your thighs are tight and flexed, it’s somehow much more enjoyable to eat a girl out than when you are kind of out of shape/didn’t exercise for a long time. Exercise to get a killer butt and you’ll immediately be more attractive around your legs. Squat!
It’s kind of strange – but with some women, a guy just wants to grab her and do all those crazy things to her, lick her whole body, eat her out, love her, grab her. Sometimes we’re in the mood for that, other times we don’t feel this “killer” type hunting instinct.
Getting tight works because it evokes the “killer” I-want-to-take-you-to-my-cave kind of attitude in him. I would bet anything that tighter, hotter women that work out regularly get their pussy eaten way more often. Try and see for yourself.
7. Compliments work.
There’s nothing better you can do than to stroke your guy’s ego. Ego, ego, ego. Pump it up! Make him feel like he’s the king of eating you out. Tell him how much you loved it and how great it felt, how wet he made you. The more you compliment him the more confident your man will feel about going down on you on a regular basis. Every single man enjoys doing what he’s good at. If he thinks he’s terrible he’ll evade doing it. Make him think he’s good at eating you out even if he’s not – in the long run, this will come true.
Apply these tips and I’m sure that within a few weeks your guy will go down on you anytime! He’ll unexpectedly “attack” you and take over control ;)
Now, as a last note… Are You sure that you are giving your best when you go down on Him? The best method to get a guy to go down on You is by giving him a blow job that is SO good that he feels OBLIGED to repay the favor.
Of course, once you’re giving him head – NEVER make it seem as if you were doing him a favor, or as if he owes you something.
Give head because you enjoy doing it, not because you want something in return.
It’s time to super-charge your learning curve, read the Book, and you’ll never have a problem with getting him to go down on you again.
See you on the other side,
Your blow job instructor,
Jack