How To Get A Guy To Want You

You can’t really force anyone to want you or to like you, or love you – but you sure can do quite a bit to influence him.

In order to get a guy to want you, first, become the type of person who you would want to hang out with. Learn to enjoy your own company and treat yourself really well. When he sees that you genuinely like and love yourself, he will want you more.

The point is that you have to love yourself before anyone else really will. And when you love yourself, you will naturally have that confidence about yourself which is highly attractive.

But if you already like / love yourself and are a happy person already, here are some things that you can do in order to get a guy to want you:

#1: Get in Shape and Smile

The hard, cold facts are that guys are attracted to women who are good looking and in shape. You don’t have to be Ms. Universe or a model, although that surely wouldn’t hurt your case…

But you should be in shape. You should want to be in shape, however, not to please any guy, but to please yourself – to feel good about yourself.

You should take up something like yoga or running, or hiking – whatever floats your boat.

But almost as important as getting in shape is putting a smile on your face.

I know this sounds obvious, but you’d be surprised at how many beautiful women simply don’t smile enough.

When you smile at a guy who you are attracted to, he instantly gets the message – whether it’s just at the grocery store, or at a club. The smile is the universal, “I think I might like you” expression. So, use it.

Men will overlook a lot of physical flaws if you take care of your body and smile a lot. But the smile you need is that genuine, inner happiness smile that you can’t fake.

#2: Dress Sexy

sexy girl with a guy

After you get in shape, assuming that you aren’t already, dress sexy. You know better than me what that means, but let me tell you what it means from a guys perspective.

In general, it means showing skin – a lot of it – but not necessarily. I don’t know if it’s just me or what, but an attractive girl in a long flowing, hip curving dress is a huge turn on for me.

So, try different looks. If you have a great rack, don’t be afraid to let those puppies show some cleavage. If you have a great ass, then wear clothing that shows it off.

Mini-skirts are a huge turn on for most guys.

But also, a lot of guys like jewelry on their women. I had one girlfriend who had bracelets that clanked just a certain way, and that sound always reminded me that she was there, and I liked it.

The point is that it does make a difference how you dress.

#3: Be Submissive

I know this sounds a bit sexist, but if the guy you want is an alpha male type, then you’ve got to act the part of the submissive woman.

This doesn’t mean that you always do whatever he wants as if you are a slave – although, those types of fantasies are pretty common nowadays with couples.

What it does mean is that you prefer to not challenge his authority and that you respect him for decisions that he makes no matter how stupid they are. I know – he’s very likely to make a bunch of stupid decisions.

The truth is that you may be smarter than the guy who you really like, so, just between you and me, let’s keep it our little secret…

It’s his natural role to be a leader, and honestly, please don’t shoot the messenger, but it’s your natural role to be submissive – especially in bed.

#4: Dirty Text Messaging

sexting

Dirty text messaging, otherwise known as sexting, is a great way to get a guy to want you. Of course, you don’t want to come off too wild and crazy right off the bat. You need to learn the art of flirting through sexting.

It can be a great way to get to his sexual side really quickly, where he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.

Texting him things that you want to do to him is a very good, direct path. Guys don’t really need a lot of foreplay and innuendos. And most of the time, we need a 2 X 4 smacked across our foreheads in order for you to get our attention.

This is why being direct works with us. Just be a little cautious to not seem desperate or clingy.

So, like the Nike commercial, just do it.

#5: Give Him a Great Blowjob

The ultimate thing that you can do in order to get a guy to want you is to give him great blowjobs. What I recommend is that you somehow work the blowjob into your conversation. Just casually say  that you were reading a book on how to give great blowjobs, but, “I don’t know who to try it out on…”

I don’t know of too many guys who would turn down a blowjob, especially if it is in the interest of science. It doesn’t matter if it’s your scientific experiment, or a real one – it’s still something that you want to figure out, so, why not it be with the guy you like?

The only thing about this approach is that you better be prepared to actually do something new and different when you give him a blowjob.

But honestly, he won’t care too much what it is that you do new or different, and also, attitude is the most important thing. When you go down on him with a lot of enthusiasm, he’ll definitely want more later.

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